Divorce
Divorce can be a confusing and emotional time for children. As a parent, there are simple things you can do to help your child feel safe, heard, and supported.
Supporting Your Child During Divorce: 3 Key Tips for Parents
Divorce is a major life change—not only for you, but especially for your child. How you handle the transition can make a big difference in how your child copes. Here are three simple but powerful tips to help support your child during this time:
1. Reassure your child it’s not their fault
Children often blame themselves for the separation. Let them know clearly and often: “This is between us as parents. It’s not your fault, and we both love you.”
2. Keep communication calm and respectful
Try to avoid arguments with your ex-partner in front of your child. Even when emotions run high, showing respect toward each other helps your child feel safe and less caught in the middle.
3. Listen to how they feel
Give your child space to talk, ask questions, or even be upset. Let them know it’s okay to have mixed feelings. Just being there and listening can mean a lot.
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